I’ve talked with him a few times about his relationship with her and he, as described in the article, became very argumentative because he thinks I am accusing him of cheating or doing something wrong when he hasn’t. I can tell you that when I was on the receiving end of this sort of thing, I was not graceful about it. I was able to find someone who was open, honest, and trustworthy. Men are mold-able, so you should talk to him in a way that builds him up. I feel that what she is doing is disrespectful and feel resentment towards him for not having the courage to tell her to back off. Whats worse is that he works right next door and I have to see him almost everydayReply July 29, 2016, 9:50 am Liz Great article. If they are trust-worthy to others than what makes you think they are not going to be trust-worthy with you ask about dating. The other day he was on the phone with her, and at the end of there conversation I heard him say love you too. he said I was paranoid its in my head for like 3 months till one late night he convinced me to have sex and I gave in told him not to finish inside me he was so upset saying I changed after what had happened to me.
Do you like to travel or would you rather stay home. Though eric made some good points like- a person will do whatever they want to do anyway, so no reason trying to control them. One day he was letting me read some text messages and I had found a response to his ex Michelle that he would call her later and they would have a long talk. he keeps reminding me that I am unreplaceable and Im his first priority but when I read their chats he seems to be more interested in talking to her as compared to when he talks to me. However, culturally exes may or may not be tolerated. She sends him nasty texts saying he is forgetting his friends if he hasnt seen her for a while, posts catty comments on his facebook page, yet he still wont cut her off ask about dating. I will not stand in his way nor will I be the other woman. As much as you want to believe otherwise and others want to feed into you it is just way off. He started with her a few weeks after he left.
Reply February 4, 2015, 1:21 pm J I have a similar situation. He kept this fling from me, despite us talking about other relationships/dates since leaving our respective marriages. I am in this situation and its been so hard since I was married and divorced from a guy for cheating on me.. This goes for any relationship I encounter as well. It is about enjoying the time spent together and not worrying about the mistakes they have made in the past. Its not something I am proud of nor will I do it again. I never contacted him or called him back. Its calming yourself down enough to look at what you really want and whether or not youre truly willing to let go if the relationship isnt acceptable to you. I basically wanted to know if it was truly over.
Are you comfortable talking about where our relationship is going. .